so, the esperanto club is throwing my wife and i a small welcome party (=treating us at a restaurant i imagine) today except 1. the guy who normally drives me/us to esperanto stuff can't this time so we have to find our own way, 2. my wife is absolutely refusing to go. ending up with that i HAVE to go alone, but don't know how to get there (my wife does), and the only other person i know who's going... is first going to church at 9am and THEN going. so now i've had to get up at 7:30 on a sunday so i can meet church guy at 8:20 so we can go to church together and hang around until like 13 when the club meeting starts. and if my wife would just come, we could ignore everything until like 15 when the welcome party starts. arggg!!

oh and church guy hasn't even told me where we're going to meet - outside my apartment? at the bus stop? are we even talking about the right bus stop? @.@ and i'm still kinda sick, meaning i'm probably going to get tired really fast and then regret the whole day... ugh... if they just weren't throwing us a party today it'd all be fine, i could skip everything, but i can't skip my own party...